Archive for May, 2010

Practicing your tonality is very important for anyone who wishes to become a master hypnotist. Whether you wish to become a clinical hypnotherapist, stage hypnotist or someone who uses covert hypnosis if your voice isn’t pleasant to listen to then people aren’t going to take your suggestions on board. Perfecting your tonality means that that your use of techniques such as embedded commands and pacing becomes all the more effective.

Some people naturally seem to have great control over the tonality of their voice, however most need to perform exercises and practice to get it just right. There are a number of exercises you can perform which is why this article is part one of a two part series. In this part we will look at some of the basic tonality exercises including posture, posture stretches and breathing.

Posture

Your posture has a direct affect on the tonality of your voice. You can hear this for yourself right now. Stand up in a slumped position, head down and say “Hello, my name is ___” out loud. Now remain standing but straighten up your back, stick your chest out and lift your head up. Repeat the same sentence you said earlier. Notice how much more authoritative you sound.

To truly master the seductive arts you need to learn how to use fractional rapport hooks. As you will probably already know rapport is the conversational bond you create with another person. If you have been studying NLP and conversational hypnosis you should already be able to build rapport pretty easily. What you are able to do with fractional rapport hooks is better hide the fact you are using “secret” and “covert” and also get a person really wanting your attention.

How is this done? Well the idea of fractional rapport is to offer your target your complete attention for a short period of time and hook them in with an incomplete story or piece of information. Then you take all of this away. This leaves the person you were talking to wanting more and craving your attention again.

Most people know a guy who’s a bit of a jerk with women, constantly playing hot and cold, yet they are consistently surrounded by them. At first it makes no sense to you but without knowing it (in most cases) they are using fractional rapport hooks. You too can experience great success with this method, and you don’t have to be a jerk about it…unless you want to be.